Sunday, November 13, 2016

Triage...


Alright - so first real post here.  There's so much to delve into with regard to this election and what the future might bring us.  But for now - I just want to acknowledge what I believe everyone is either sensing or witnessing - and that is a palpable tension that seems to be foreshadowing threats of - or even acts of -  violence.  These threats of violence are being directed at folks on all sides - that includes Trump supporters.  I want to be clear about that to my friends who supported Trump.  I do know and I have witnessed news reports of acts of hate towards people who voiced support for Trump (or just seemed to match the profile).  There are two main examples I know of - this one, where a traffic accident led to a white man being beaten and his car seemingly stolen while he was dragged off - this is horrifying.  Police reports of this incident point to a traffic accident that then spun out of control to a hateful attack on the man for either having a Trump bumper sticker - saying he voted for Trump - or maybe, just being an older white man.  Regardless of all this - this is abhorrent.

The other prominent example of violence towards a Trump supporter is that of a young girl at a high school in California being accosted by a black girl for having posted something in support of Trump on Instagram the evening before the election.  Again - friends of mine who supported Trump - this is unacceptable to me and anyone I know - regardless of whom we supported for President.  I should also note that this prompted a campus-wide protest in support of the girl that was attacked - you can read about it here.

Before I acknowledge the reports I've seen of intimidation, threats and violence towards ethnic and religious minorities from the few bigoted folks that are emboldened by a Trump win - let me make the following plea to all my conservative, Trump-supporting friends.  These reactions of violence and hateful rhetoric are only beginning.  I'm sadly confident it's only going to get much worse.  Please, please, please - as you see examples of this - please disavow it all.  Please bear witness to attacks and threats of attacks on anyone and try your best to deescalate the tensions.  Every time you see a report of an attack on someone from a supposed Trump supporter - please don't then feel the need to find as many examples of these attacks on Trump supporters as a means of tit for tat false equivalency.

There are conservative media sites out there - the top two to name are Breitbart and Infowars.  These are not news sites bound by any inkling of journalistic integrity and rigor.  They are sites meant to misinform and provoke.  They, and many like them, are going to try and get you to dig deeper into your foxholes. Please don't.  Stay informed - watch the evening National news, read your local and National newspapers.  If you spend one hour watching or reading news from an organization that is editorially conservative - do yourself a service and try to spend an equal amount of time obtaining information from an organization that is perceived or acknowledged to be of a liberal bent in its commentary. Please stop feeling and feeding the need to be right - and please try to start feeding the need to understand.

Back to the sad necessity of pointing out what everyone is likely hearing about - and that is the sharp rise in hate crimes towards ethnic and religious minorities in our country.  You can read about examples here, here and here.

I have no idea what can be done to staunch this. It may be impossible.  The one thing I wish would happen, that I think would be immensely helpful - but that I'm saddened to say is probably very unlikely - is that Trump make a major post-election speech as soon as possible.  I'll give him some help, although I'm a lousy speech writer.  Here goes:

"Dear all people of America - those who supported me, and those who did not.  I want to be everyone's president.  I want to heal the divide that's widening in our country.  I must acknowledge that during the campaign and for the past eight years, I have been at times insensitive and unnecessarily provocative.  I called into question the legitimacy of our first black president's place of birth, when I knew that he was born in America.  I have referred to ethnic and religious minorities as those unworthy of our trust and respect - and I now know that this was unhelpful and counter-productive.  I am sorry for having said these things - and I want a chance to set things right.........."

Something like that.  Will we ever get anything remotely close?  Anything short of it will likely only allow these protests and horrible acts of violence and intimidation to continue.  We cannot function as a society on these terms.

We need to stop the bleeding here - but can we?

Friends that I've included on this email - please write me with your thoughts and feelings whenever you have the chance - take your time.  Please be as positive and constructive as possible.



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